tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613995924950443071.post3039707559229526340..comments2024-03-07T03:19:03.012-08:00Comments on Not the primrose path...: It's ok to cry...Mas Afzal Masarudinhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17158442565393991336noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613995924950443071.post-6302987918913300442018-06-06T22:49:33.951-07:002018-06-06T22:49:33.951-07:00I'll repost this with cr your blog. Thankyou :...I'll repost this with cr your blog. Thankyou :)Dinda Difahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14014893396002052134noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613995924950443071.post-74936043168733373552010-06-03T09:46:22.936-07:002010-06-03T09:46:22.936-07:00dear mas,
i'm usually a silent reader of blog...dear mas,<br /><br />i'm usually a silent reader of blogs but reading your words i'm compelled to comment. your spirit, faith and positive attitude is truly an inspiration for us out here who complain when inflicted by the slightest fever.<br /><br />my prayers and doas are with you, hope i can be as strong as you are when tested with such adversity.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613995924950443071.post-7755500290890665152010-06-01T05:51:55.625-07:002010-06-01T05:51:55.625-07:00Perhaps our eyes need to be washed by our tears on...Perhaps our eyes need to be washed by our tears once in a while, so that we can see Life with a clearer view again ;-)<br />p/s: stay strong bro!andi fitrianihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08567884893094283290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613995924950443071.post-26857104400679641032010-05-29T03:04:14.854-07:002010-05-29T03:04:14.854-07:00Assalamualaikum wbt.
yupp its ok to cry when ever...Assalamualaikum wbt.<br /><br />yupp its ok to cry when everything seems goes wrong. gather strenght from that! <br /><br />InsyaAllah. we will be strong after that.ummujannahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14446620488382375357noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613995924950443071.post-49988070583135758292010-05-28T02:36:24.896-07:002010-05-28T02:36:24.896-07:00salam brother mas,
i just found ur blog and found...salam brother mas,<br /><br />i just found ur blog and found out tht ur words made me shiver but somehow soothing and let me to feel at ease. i'd encountered so much difficulties until at one point i feel like i cant bare and deal with it anymore.but i always believe tht Allah is there to lend me a hand. its just the matter of time. and i do cry a lot as i feel no one else can help me instead of myself. thus it makes me calm for a while before i proceed to try again. <br />anyway, the point is ur words reminds me to keep on the right track and that there are many people out there facing much2 more greater challenges and that im still lucky to earn what the others dont.i just need to hold up my patience and dont ever give up.<br /><br />subhanallah u hd passed through a very great journey..inshaAllah with HIS will u'll be fine.<br /><br />.cry-a-lot.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613995924950443071.post-15517667314318517372010-05-26T20:34:16.258-07:002010-05-26T20:34:16.258-07:00selamat akh mas inshaallah.selamat akh mas inshaallah.hamkanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613995924950443071.post-62216686785290853162010-05-25T22:28:54.123-07:002010-05-25T22:28:54.123-07:00@Anonymous - You must have gone through quite an e...@Anonymous - You must have gone through quite an experience. I hope things are getting better for you, and that you have gained enough strength to move on with life, insha Allah. Crying can certainly be a very soothing therapy, as long as we keep it in check.<br /><br /><br />@Cha - Hati anak mana tak luluh mendengar tangisan ibunya. Moga Allah jauhkan kita dari menjadi penyebab airmata ibu yang terluka dengan perbuatan kita. Nauzubillah!<br /><br /><br />@Zatil - Syukran ukhti, do keep the prayers coming!Mas Afzal Masarudinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17158442565393991336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613995924950443071.post-64822210739646205542010-05-25T20:34:55.196-07:002010-05-25T20:34:55.196-07:00Hopefully Allah will bless u. Be strong Bro. :))Hopefully Allah will bless u. Be strong Bro. :))FishyMilkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08452615158340694542noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613995924950443071.post-70060177327624490982010-05-25T12:51:25.913-07:002010-05-25T12:51:25.913-07:00mas, i was crying when i read the mom line..Whose ...mas, i was crying when i read the mom line..Whose soul wouldn't break apart having heard the tears of his/her dearest mom?..<br /><br />nway, br perasan kat bwh tuh ade credit kat pisang ...wow, fuiyo...<br />ana still akan jd kipas susah mati enta mas selain spanish football team..faisalzulkiflihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09014834450336422067noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613995924950443071.post-52632060089322699632010-05-25T08:23:13.339-07:002010-05-25T08:23:13.339-07:00Dear Blogger,
I am extremely glad that u have sha...Dear Blogger, <br />I am extremely glad that u have shared this. I too thought that crying was shameful. But when at one devastating point in my life, i had to cry. And i just cried and cried, not for days, not weeks, but months. I did some terrible things, and I hurt and probably will hurt people because of it. And with this heartache that I have to carry til the end of days, I will still cry, and will not stop crying. Tears still struck my eyes whenever I think about this, and it makes me repent, and remind.<br /><br />I just wish to thank you so much. You have brought me so much closer again to the point in my life. To make me realise that yes it is ok to cry. And yes, it will bring me closer to Him. And yes, theres a hikmah behind all my sobs and tears. I just may not know it yet :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613995924950443071.post-70333089112128337712010-05-25T08:06:10.128-07:002010-05-25T08:06:10.128-07:00@ Adibah - Thank u so much for sharing a bit about...@ Adibah - Thank u so much for sharing a bit about urself. I must admit that I am slightly surprised to know that it's not uncommon of you to cry over something, as I'd always thought of you as a very tough lady judging from your outward appearance. =)<br /><br />Nevertheless, knowing you, I hope that one day Allah will grant your wish; to cry with an utmost reliance to only Him!<br /><br /><br />@Shahnom - Looking forward to hear good news on your return home to Malaysia soon akhi. Insha Allah.<br /><br /><br />@Sarah - Amiin, jazakillah khair ukhti.Mas Afzal Masarudinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17158442565393991336noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613995924950443071.post-5184352394743765212010-05-25T07:55:15.027-07:002010-05-25T07:55:15.027-07:00assalamualaikum
semoga kamu terus tabah. He alway...assalamualaikum<br /><br />semoga kamu terus tabah. He always be there.sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09451965711840344235noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613995924950443071.post-74467888899062119922010-05-25T07:43:23.422-07:002010-05-25T07:43:23.422-07:00Salam alaikum :)
"The important thing is how...Salam alaikum :)<br /><br />"The important thing is how we reacted after we cried. "<br /><br />We always with you, be strong Mas..MSIhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16076862813065369708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1613995924950443071.post-64829088408860011252010-05-25T07:15:50.417-07:002010-05-25T07:15:50.417-07:00Salam.
Mas, I'm one of those persons who rega...Salam.<br /><br />Mas, I'm one of those persons who regard crying and tears - if it comes from me - as a sign of weakness. Ironically, I do tend to get touched easily, having tears welling up is not an uncommon occasion to me. Perhaps it is in reaction to such 'sensitivity', in reaction to my 'inability' to keep those tears off, that I developed the attitude that crying = weakness = helplessness = BAD. If, when facing certain problems, I felt like crying, or worse, if I did cry, then I am weak and despisable. <br /><br />I do read your writings from time to time. However I must say that it is this one that struck the chord the most with me. <br /><br />Those closest to me have always told me that it is OK to cry. I do cry on their shoulders, but I need to work hard on not chastising myself or feeling immensely stupid afterwards. Sometimes I wish that I would not NEED people to soothe me, that I would be self-sufficient enough, that 'hasbiyAllah' would really mean Allah is enough. <br /><br />Nevertheless I am human who will need to cry, will need those shoulders to lean on, and furthermore, deep inside I realised that those desires of independence, of self-sufficiency may even lead to takabbur, and be contrary to the spirit of Islamic solidarity. <br /><br />Thanks Mas. Maybe one day I will be able to cry with tawakkal and without remorse.<br /><br />Allah be with you, inshaAllah.<br /><br />=)adibah abdullahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10922499155555745243noreply@blogger.com