Monday, 8 June 2009

You've made it Pakcik!

Assalamualaikum wbt

وَمِنْ ءايَـتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُم مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَجاً لِّتَسْكُنُواْ إِلَيْهَا

وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُم مَّوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً إِنَّ فِى ذَلِكَ لأَيَـتٍ لِّقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ

And among His signs is this that He created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find repose in them, and He has put between you affection and mercy. Verily, in that are indeed signs for a people who reflect.

Allah tells us between the verses of 20 to 25 in this beautiful chapter of Surah Ar-Rum some of the amazing signs which speak of His might and power. Out of Allah's perfect mercy, He has created women to complement men and create such a wonderful harmony between the two that each is a perfect counterpart of the other.

Last weekend marked another significant and emotional event for my family. Azmir bin Hj Mohamed Salleh, fondly known among us as Pakcik, has finally tied the knot with the love of his life, Sharifah Nor Asilah bt Syed Basir.

I personally find this occasion emotional as I am instantly reminded of a person who wasn't there during the weekend but is surely in the thoughts of Pakcik, and all of us.

That person is Arwah Wan.

Arwah Wan must be so proud and happy for Pakcik now that he has finally met his partner in life. May Allah reward arwah Wan with Jannah, biiznillah.

To Pakcik, congratulations, and the Sunnah for wishing every recently married couple is :

بَارَكَ اللهُ لَكَ وَبَارَكَ عَلَيْكَ وَجَمَعَ بَيْنَكُمَا فِي خَيْرٍ

May Allah bless for you, and may He bless on you, and combine both of you in good (works). [Sunan Abu Daud, no.2130]


p/s: I'll be joining the celebration soon, insya Allah. Not too looking forward with the idea of being the best man though. Kena jadi jugak lagi ke? =(


Anonymous said...

Assalamualaikum wbth,

Rasanya macam aruah wan ada bersama pada tanggal 6.6.2009...sekurang-kurangnya semangat beliau ada di kalangan kita semua hari tu.

Alhamdullillah semuanya sudah selamat. Buat Pakcik, this is just the beginning. The true test will come after your honeymoon is over.

Banyakkan bersabar dan berbincang ,insyaAllah yang susah akan jadi senang dan yang mustahil akan ada jalan penyelesaiannya...We are always available for consultation!

Afzal...we await your return anxiously..take, mama.

Andi said...

ala boss, chemo 12 round ko bole settle... setakat jadi best man... macam walk in the park la tu, insya Allah.

Anonymous said...

Assalamualaikum, alhamdulillah things went just great with my wedding, thanx to everybody (I meant our family, of course). I just can't thanked you all enough. I'm trying my world's best to be a good husband, and as a newcomer to married life ... tunjuk ajar, tips and advice from family (yang married jer, anak2 buah yg bujang lagi jgn byk citer, korang nyer turn kena sakat akan tiba, you all just wait!!!) is highly appreciated.
As for Afzal, so far everybody else here already has their own job functions during my wedding reception @ Bentong, so you're the only one with no particular tasks (yet!). So, with all due respect, hair or no hair (anyway you're not even supposed to outshine the pengantin!!!), you'll be my bestman along with sarah. By the way, ur pics yg mama bawak balik baru ni, from certain angles u look like Craig David (wearing those kopiah 'Puma').

p/s: Arwah wan ... I really felt her presence during my akad nikah, I hope I've made her proud. Al-Fatihah.

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